Monday, January 25, 2010

What Fuels A Child's Imagination

When I was a small child, we lived on some land that had our house at one end, my grandparents' house at the other end, and a small empty barn in between our homes. That barn was the epicenter of my young days.In east Tennessee, the soil isn't so much soil as it is pottery that just hasn't had a chance to fully fire yet. I'm talking red clay. Solid red clay. The floor of this barn was red clay that had been walked on and worked on for years and years. It was as hard as concrete. As smooth as if someone had sanded it down to perfection.

And cool. Even on those hot, endless August summer days in the south, I can remember opening up that barn door and a jolt of cool air hitting me as if the barn was air conditioned. I would walk in bare foot on that cool, hard floor and immediately feel better.

My imagination could run wild inside that barn. I remember dragging my dolls and my tea set in there and having wonderful tea parties where the talk among my dolls and me would be all about what dangerous things were going on outside the comfort of our worn, wooden walls.

Other days, I would imagine the undiscovered treasures of past civilizations that laid beneath my feet covered with that hard packed soil. In my mind, that barn was a million years old and had seen more than its share of exciting times and people. I just knew there were secrets buried beneath me.

When I think about those days that were over 40 years ago, the memories flood back so vividly. I can almost feel that soil under my feet right now and I can smell that smell - slightly damp and musty and very earthy - that hit me every time I opened the door. I am instantly transported back to those wonderful years of my childhood.

It was magical. I've tried to provide opportunities for my own kids to have that magic.

Let's hope I've succeeded.

87 comments:

sheila said...

Oh, that is a BEAUTIFUL post! I felt like I was there. With red feet. :)

The Mrs. said...

That sounds so wonderful. It's funny how playing outside as kids was so magical for us....not sure out kids are having the same experience!

slommler said...

I could see the red clay and feel the dampness! How wonderful to have such a magical place as a child!
Hugs
SueAnn

Danielle said...

That sounds great. So peaceful.

xoxo
Danielle

Betty Manousos:cutand-dry.blogspot.com said...

Love your post.
So beautiful memories and place.!
Have a grear week! xx

Allyson said...

What a fine line that is between knowing a barn as a place for imaginary tea parties and sanctuary from the world and knowing it as a place of work. We almost have more barns than people in Kentucky and somehow, I was never around any growing up. But my husband lived on a farm in his teenage years and he tells me all the stories about "the loft". :D If you're aware that these little moments can make a difference in a child's memory of childhood, then I'm sure you're supplying them amply. I wonder what your children will remember from their upbringing?

Secretia said...

I had a vivid imagination as a child, now it only works if I make the time to let myself unwind. I have found that looking at the sky, day and night helps me relax, and it's free!

Secretia

Rachel Cotterill said...

Sounds fabulous :) I always used to love making up my own little worlds (oh, who am I kidding? I still do!). I think a lot of kids' toys these days leave less to the imagination... when all children really need is the space to make their own entertainment.

Amy said...

I love to dream about all kinds of things. I still do it. It is nice and takes me to things I like at times.

Have a great MOnday.

mo.stoneskin said...

The memories I have of playing outside, climbing trees, *ahem* shooting arrows at ducks remind me of the freedom that I want my own children to enjoy.

Anna See said...

Great description and memories!

Eva Gallant said...

I played outside as a child always; it's a shame kids don't so much anymore.

Under the Influence said...

I love those kinds of childhood memories! And yes, I hope my kids have a few of their own when they grow up.

Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts said...

What a nice childhood memory.

Stacy (the Random Cool Chick) said...

Imagination is a wonderful thing, isn't it? I'm happy to report that Princess Nagger has a very active imagination - she keeps pretending she's a Pteranodon. Should I be afraid? ;)

Kristina P. said...

Lovely, Debbie.

Alicia said...

awww that was so tender! it makes me want to be little again....i guess i'll just have to live vicariously through my babies.

honeypiehorse said...

I love barns myself. We didn't have one in North Hollywood but I visited several famrs and grew up at a boarding school with horses.

Pricilla said...

Awww, sounds like a great way to grow up especially to some one who grew up in Philadelphia.

Lara said...

Sometimes I feel like technology has so completely overtaken the world that those days are gone forever. I am trying to give my kids those opportunities.

TechnoBabe said...

I could picture the barn and the red clay packed down and smooth and the tea parties. Lovely post.

Secret Mom Thoughts said...

It sounds like a magical place.

Tricia McWhorter said...

Lovely post. I always wanted a barn. They just seem to be bursting with potential—for dreams, for studios, for animals...

foxy said...

Wow - i felt like i was right there with you! You are an incredible writer!!

Marilyn said...

I get that same feeling when I go in our barn. I can remember all the sounds and smells of my childhood. I love that I am able to live in the place where my families memories are kept :)

P.s
You can come and smell our barn anytime.

Rachel@just another day in paradise said...

and in the winter, we played surrounded by the hay bales in the hay loft that kept us warm. . .

William Manson © 2010 said...

we never forget our roots, this was a great little story going back to your youth :)

Ms Bibi said...

I love going down the memory lane...it's so sweet

I always try to think way back and compare how my kids are growing up and how I grew up. It's a shame, but something can never be repeated.

Robin said...

Nice...I can smell the earth as I read...I hope we are giving out kids these same memories..I just pulled out a blanket the other day and my daughter said.."Ooohh I smell the beach"...That is one of our very happy smells...but sometimes Im afraid that the sound of keyboard pounding or text beeps will be what fuels their imaginations..lets hope I am wrong too..!

shortmama said...

Love it! I hope I am doing the same for my girls!

Nancy C said...

Lovely. I'm feeling that cool, cool earth right now.

SPEAKING FROM THE CRIB said...

don't we all?

Sarah and the Gentlemen said...

That sounds like my kind of place!

We used to have a "fort" at my grandparents' house. It was the space between the garage and the next door neighbor's fence. You could get in through a gate which we guarded or sneak around behind the garage to enter.

I hope my children find a special place to let their imagination grow.

Aunt LoLo said...

Some of my FAVORITE childhood memories are the silly "pretend games" I would play..sometimes with Myrnie, sometimes by myself. I'd love to be able to share a sense of imagination with BBJ and Siu Jeun!

Lani said...

What a great childhood memory! I am SURE you have done a great job creating things like that for your kids too!

Laura said...

"the soil isn't so much soil as it is pottery that just hasn't had a chance to fully fire yet"

Loved that!

I completely get that soil and it brings back memories of spending summer vacations in TN.

Lorna said...

Beautiful memories: wish I grew up playing in a barn and the open land! I left you a Happy 101 award at my blog if you have a moment...

Ji said...

awesome photos,
yes, it is wondrous to explore a child's imagination and the reason behind that,

playful post,
unbeatable thoughts.

jingle
http://www.jingleyanqiu.wordpress.com

Mark said...

Thanks for sharing the magic of your memories. We all need to remember to the mind of a child for it is there where we find our authentic selves.

Live.Love.Eat said...

How awesome to have those kinds of memories. I feel the same, but about my Grandma's house in NH up the street from the lake.

There was a room upstairs where I felt transported to another place in time with so many nooks & crannies and things to read and touch. It was the coolest place ever and I would love to go back there.

Debra W said...

Lovely memory, Debbie. I am absolutely SURE that you have helped to create MANY of those memories for your children.

It's so nice to know that there are other Moms out there who understand what is truly important and valuable.

Hugs,
Debbie

Laurnie said...

Im new to your blog, and I have to tell you its great. This post is beautiful. The older I get, the more I realize old memories and how making them is important.

Vodka Logic said...

Sounds idyllic and how lucky you were. Your described it all perfectly and I could you playing.

Thanks for the little break

Kristen said...

Red clay is something else isn't it? Boy...it sure does make a mess of clothes though lol. ;-) Beautiful memories, and I'm sure you've created the same for your kids!

Richard @ The Bewildered Brit said...

Wow, that sounds amazing. I loved things like that when I were a lad!

Elizabeth Bradley said...

Beautifully written. Felt like I was there.

L.T. Elliot said...

You've totally transported me into your childhood. I think that's incredibly romantic.

♥ Boomer ♥ said...

I love this post! Very inspiring! ♥ And I love the memories you shared. I believe you are a wonderful mom.

lagirl said...

That was great!
What warm/fuzzy memories you have...I didn't have a barn, but my Grandmothers house was on stilts(?) so me and my BFF used to love to play UNDER the house. It's where we took a broken pop bottle and nick'ed our thumbs to become "blood sisters". Germs? YUK!!

Jenners said...

I always enjoy your childhood memory posts ... you are really able to evoke the time and place for everyone. I can feel that clay under my feet too.

Flory said...

You added great description in this post. I too enjoy reading about childhood memories.

Smart Mouth Broad said...

Memories and good times. I think our sense of smell and touch can bring back memories better than any of the other senses. You painted such a lovely picture, I could almost feel the clay beneath my feet.

Kathi D said...

Oh, that sounds wonderful! My only barn experience as a child was visiting cousins who lived on a dairy farm. I thought the barn was the most fun place ever--we climbed a ladder to the loft and jumped out onto the ground (padded with hay) and just hung out in the loft. It was all "old hat" to my cousins, but I think that when they saw how much I loved it, they had more fun in it too.

Life with Kaishon said...

I am almost 100% sure that you succeeded! : ) I love barns. They bring back wonderful memories for me as well!

ladyfi said...

Lovely post! I too remember the magic of my child's imagination... oh the games and adventures I had! (And still do on a good day...)

I'm pretty sure you sparkled some of that magic dust on your kids too...

Reasons said...

Nicely put Debbie...great to write and share this kind of thing.

Me, You, or Ellie said...

*I* can feel that hard red clay under my bare feet now, too.

Ellie

saltsays said...

An absolutely wonderful post that totally brought back fond old memories.

My grandmother used to take me to a topiary garden that is out in the country and I would pretend I was Alice in Wonderland. Those were some of the happiest times of my childhood!

I'm going to have to remember things like this when I'm a mom. :)

Manic Mother said...

Great reflection, reminded me of my childhood, although we didn't have a barn I did grow up in the country. I wish my boys could experience the country life, somehow we have gotten so removed from that...

Sara @ Domestically Challenged said...

Beautiful. I had so many special places as a child. I hope every child has this experience.

Broke But Still Drinking said...

I was never brave enough to play in vacant barns, even with twenty or so teddy bears watching my back.

2busy said...

This is wonderful. It evokes such feeling and memories of my own. I remember going on walk on old Indian trails. I even found an arrowhead once. At least, in my imagination that's what I thought.

colbymarshall said...

Aw, how neat! I love that your kids have that memory, now, too!

Wendy Kae said...

Ah, tea sets. Wonderful memories.

wendy said...

OH Thank you for taking me back to MY childhood. So similar. My grandparents had their house in Southern Alberta, on a farm ---barn inbetween --where my parents live now. My times spent there as a young child are some of the most precious memories of my life!!!
I would love my grandchildren to be able to come up here and see me and develope some MEMORIES for them as well.

alessandra said...

Oh, you brought me there too, thank you very much!
I had similar experience, but it wasn't a barn, it was a garage ;-)

Corrie Howe said...

Kids have great imaginations. I always marvel at what little thing keeps them happy and entertained for hours.

Gabe's Girl said...

I love this post. I still remember how I thought as a child. I really believed the moon followed us and that it was made of cheese! My kids think I am silly for having thought that, but it was so magical to me. I had so many secret worlds just in my closet and backyard! I hope they have that same magic too. I don't think it is exactly like mine was, but I really hope it is there. I also thought you could dig a hole to China! I also thought if the right wind came along and you thought hard enough, you could fly!

The Muse said...

...there are blogs that tug at my soul...I think I have found one!

gayle said...

You are so lucky to remember things like that about your childhood. I can't!! But I wish I could b/c it was so very wonderful!!

Jeanie said...

We had that red clay in Oklahoma where I grew up....I can remember it looking and feeling just as you described. I can remember playing in haylofts in barns with all kinds of imaginary happenings going on.

Kathryn said...

"I'm glad you are able to see some good things about Georgia:) I'm just to the north of you in TN. I imagine moving to the south would be a shock but maybe we will continue to grow on you!"

haha yeah it's not all bad! It's not really bad, just getting used to the southern cooking and stuff! haha! Thanks for commenting!! :) Have a great night!

Nezzy said...

The farm is full of wonderful media to spark the imagination of a child or an adult. Mine just never quits but I'm kinda like Peter Pan in that respect. Great descriptive post.

You have a wonderful evening filled with blessings of sweet dreams dear one!!!

deb said...

This was so vivid.
I used to "grind" wheat for bread, playing pioneer woman.
Loved this, and while it's different for kids now, being aware , as it seems you are, will no doubt give them the gift .

Mommie Daze said...

Beautiful story. Reminds me of the summers I spent at my grandma's farm.

otin said...

Nothing like a little step through the past! Made me feel like a kid again.

Louise said...

Love this! Those magical memories are important. I have so many of my own, but we live in sardine-like suburbs, and I worry that my kids won't have the same cherished memories. They won't, but they make their own in this tiny yard. But the things they love the most are the visits to my dad's house in the Missouri hills.

And for this semester, my oldest daughter (age 8) is living in east Tennessee and making cherished memories on a farm. She is so loving it.

Suzi said...

What a great story. Love those magical moments. I can only hope I succeed in giving/allowing my boys to have their own magical moments.

Cheryl said...

I love your blog. This takes me down memory lane. Love it. Thanks for stopping by and leaving a note.

Staci Danford said...

Awe.. that made me want to drive off to that barn tonight.. Such a great story.. Being a gal from the South myslef I felt just like I was sitting right there with you having that tea party.. LOVED it.
Staci

Kimberly said...

I felt the cool air as you opened the barn door.

That was cool!

Thanks for taking us back.

The Blonde Duck said...

I'm sure you have. I think so many kids are lacking imagination these days--everything is fed to them!

Sandy said...

Beautifully written. I love to think back to those days, too. So special.

Shelle said...

it's not easy these days.....i'm glad my kids are older now so they can at least go out into the yard & play by themselves more. i grew up playing in the bush, with boulders & caves and rock climbing cliffs, not to mention all the poisonous snakes & spiders. we would leave the house in the morning and mum would say 'be back by dinner'. we'd get into big trouble if we weren't. i know people think i'm weird giving my kids the freedom i do...but they obviously have no idea!

Frances said...

What a beautiful post!

My grandparents had barns like that in West Tennessee. Wonderous adventures happened in those barns.

Mags said...

I swear I could feel the cool air from the barn as I read your post. What a wonderful childhood memory...I'm sure your children have a bunch of their own!

Dean C said...

I like your photos.