I was reading a post on another blog where people were discussing what time they started thinking about lunch. The common answer was 11:00 or 11:30.Not me baby. It is even a source of teasing between my mother-in-law and me.
I start thinking about my meals at least a full 24 hours in advance. It's true. I am more than a little obsessed with my food. I've been making meal plans for about 18 years now. Much longer than it has been in style. I take great comfort in knowing what I will be eating this upcoming weekend.

If my kids are coming home from college, I get even more obsessed. Maybe if I serve them just the perfect food, they'll still love home more than college. Or something like that.
But in all honesty, I'd be almost as obsessed if it was just my husband and me. We like our food. A lot. We are completely the same in this aspect. When we go to a restaurant, we have to decide together what to order. And the person that orders second almost always orders the same thing the first person ordered. We are terrified one of us will get something better than the other.
I think I may have inadvertently stumbled onto something here. In our teens and twenties, our hormones have most of us focused on other activities than eating.
In our thirties, most of us are parents and just focused on when in the world we might sleep for longer than 15 minutes at a stretch. Nothing is more desirable than that blissful sleep.
Then come the 40s and 50s. The kids are older and sleeping. The hormones have settled or completely left us. And what is left to focus our attention on? Food. Wonderful food.
Which would explain the proliferation of the cooking shows on the air.
And that midlife bulge.
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Hilarious - and true! Except that I'm a hopeless cook and burn everything and although now 50, have small kids so am still in that trying to sleep phase...
Must be true. I've had more interest in cooking since the kids have flown and the divorce was final.
I wish I could plan ahead like that. For me, figuring out what to cook is the worst part of cooking.
I am hopeless at cooking but you sound exactly like my Mom...she too plans our meals ahead and serves us the tastiest food
As I'm living away from home at jhe moment I miss my mom's meals like crazy...
Totally relate and resemble.
Unless hubs is out of town and then I don't cook -- I just eat stuff I wouldn't normally have.
And what's up with all the people who don't know how to cook now? Notice that?
Scary!
I'm just impressed. Your meal planning and your timer using. I need to be more like you :)
Food is my life! I have 3 freezers and 2 refrigerators. I think about food 24/7. Where to buy it. How to cook it. Who to invite to eat it. I teach cooking. I cater, I do private chef services. I DIET so I can eat anything I want. sigh... I need a hobby. ;-)
I love food!
We're foodies in this house, although I don't plan meals generally. But there are always many groceries to satisfy anyone's urge to cook or bake.
Last night my 12 year old made a surprise dinner for her older sisters and friends.
Homemade breaded chicken strips, brie with toasted italian break, homemade cole slaw with celery seed etc
Now I'm hungry.
I wish I was more interested! I start thinking about what to make for dinner about 5 minutes before dinnertime! Care to mentor me?
I'm not quite that organized. But I do try to think about what things I'll make for dinner on Sundays....I usually don't write it down. I just mostly have it in my head.
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Oh I'm with you - I LOVE planning out my meals way ahead of time. Hope you have a wonderful weekend!
Oh....FOOD glorious FOOD!! We love our food around here, as I'm sure you know!
We differ in two respects, though - I don't plan out my meals. We go grocery shopping together, and get whatever looks fresh/in-season/cheap. Then I figure out how to cook it.
Second, we NEVER order the same thing at restaurants. We order different things, that we both like...and then we share dishes! Mm.....more options that way. ;-)
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I love food too! But I'm only in the 20s stage of my life...aka pre-kids. Please tell me my love of food isn't going to go away!! :)
I did get props for making cupcakes NOT from the box yesterday though (even though they weren't as majestic as I wanted them to be!)
This cracked me up AND it totally explains why my Meme starts worrying about visits from my out of town aunts and uncle 3 weeks in advance. Add in the fact that a couple are vegetarian and you can see why it becomes a full blown obsession.
Oh my gosh you just descibed me! I have to know what everyone else is getting before I can order. I plan meals and if company is coming I really have a reason to plan...
I am in serious love with my food too, but just can't get a handle on menu planning. It seems I start off with good intentions and then at the last minute change my mind, lol.
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Stopping by from SITS! Thanks for your comment on my blog! Zumba is on dvd right now from what I understand if you so desired. :) I'm still in that early 20's stage and early kids' stage of focusing on sleep. :) I think I may welcome a food "obsession" :)
Man, I am the same way about food. I'm always thinking about what's next. And my husband is the exact OPPOSITE, which makes my obsession really difficult. If I start talking about dinner while we're eating breakfast, he just laughs and mocks me. What an a-hole, huh?
I just plan to eat all day long--that way I don't have to stop and plan in advance.
hahaha! See now I so afraid to plan for exactly the same reason - I'm obsessed with food :)
1. You sort of remind me of Meg Ryan in "When Harry Met Sally" but hey, you know what you like and that is a huge hurdle that some people never overcome.
2. Hubs and I ALWAYS end up ordering the same thing so now I check with him before the waitress comes back because what good is it going out with someone who lets you order off their plate when it's the same thing that's on your plate??
3. Yes, I clicked on the picture to enlarge it and if that's really your menu, I am wickedimpressed. If my menu looked like that, I would dream about food all the time, too. As it is, I make sure I have a protein, a carb, and a vegetable...although they are much fancier than my college days, they ain't got NUTTIN' on that! I am making notes....
I am like that too, but my hubby isn't thinking of food ahead of time. I like planning and preparing. I know the day before what we are having for the next day's meals. He just says "what's for lunch?" and I have it already started. True love wouldn't you say?
I am totally with you on this. I'd write more, but it's 11:15 and time for lunch!
Meal planning is not one of my strengths, but since I don't cook much these days that is not a big problem. I keep thinking the urge to cook will kick back in but it hasn't happened yet. I always like to know what other people are going to order at a restaurant....hate it if theirs looks better than mine.
I am an excellent cook. I make a mean Pizza Hut and McDonalds.
Sad but true. I do find myself planning for killer meals and snacks when my 2 older kids are home from college. My youngest, unfortunately, couldn't care less. No fun cooking for her. Apparently I need some fun as a cooking motivator.
i attribute mine to mental illness. planning gives me some sort of a high.
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I really like food too...and I'm still in my 30s with young kids to distract me so what does that mean for me when I hit the 40s and 50s! Yikes.
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Well, I also totally love food and plan everything around it! I started meal planning this year because I got tired of stopping by the grocery store every day. I used to start planning my dinner first thing in the morning, but now, I plan it for the entire week. Sometimes I get a new idea in my head that I must try, so my meals do change from time to time, but not often! I can't imagine how I will be when I'm in my 50s and my kids are grown!
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Hilarious!!!!!
I'm 52 and you're right. Everything else has settled down, now it's time to put things in proper perspective!
Food!
I love it.
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I never know what I want that in advance. I plan a weeks worth of meals, and then decide what I'm going to have when the time arises.
But, my English family? They are thinking about the next meal while eating the current one.
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I LOVE food! I love reading about it, watching shows about it, making it and eating it.
I also love my hormones. LOL! Does that make me odd?
I am thirty eight and that is so true.. I am starting to think about and enjoy food :)
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My husband and I do the same thing at restaraunts! Well, actually, I do the same thing because I am always jealous of what he gets.
And we share your love for food. In fact, sometime we put our kids to bed extra early just so we can actually relax with our dinner... it's that important to us!
Oh, yes, the midlife bulge. Indulge/bulge. Hate that.
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oh man. I am getting the midlife bulge before I am even midlife.
we love our food around my joint, too.
I would probably live on peanut butter sandwiches and cereal if left to my own devices. I'm married to a man to expects to have something different every dang day! Lucky for both of us, his hands arent' broken.
Just So You Know, the midlife bulge can show up long before midlife. Not that I am speaking from experience, you understand. Not at all. Not me.
Sounds about right but my Husband and I are an exception to that rule:) We are almost 29 and love food and seem to focus a little too much on what we are going to eat LOL Sleep is good too though since we have 3 kids 9, 4 and 2. Oh and time alone together is another thing we would like more of.
I make menus strictly for dinners. The days are flexible. Food is important. I'm thinking I need a piece of liccorice right about now...
I love food but the planning and the prep elude me at times. That must be why many a meal has come from a bag of Doritos. OK, there's a cake calling my name... got to run.
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Lol! I do like food myself, but I must admit I hate lunch... maybe if I planned it more I wouldn't feel like it was the same old same old.. but when I have a 5 and 3 year old there are only so many options anyway.
I do plan my dinners though
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A woman after my own heart! I do the same thing! Love the way you said it :)
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I admit I have that Midlife bulge. I also admit that I'm a foody. I love how you menu plan. You should teach us sometime.
Thanks for sharing your passion,
So true! The older we get, the more obsessed with food. But have to admit, it started much sooner in our case (when our kids were still small and we were still sleep deprived). Quite a change from when we first got married and I didn't even know how to make rice.
I wish I had the time! I'll have to pay closer attention to your cooking posts. I like quick simple meals that leave just enough room for a few cookies, etc.
Great Post!
You've made me hungry again so now I'm thinking about dinner.
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Mmmm. I am the same way about food. I love it dearly. Surprisely enough, I don't plan. Although I am OCD about everything else.
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When I'm falling asleep at nite I'm thinking about all my meals and snacks that are available, it's so much fun.
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So that's why my Dad is so obsessed with food!
You hit it on the nail with this one!
I find myself thinking about food alot lately too --hence the added 20lbs since last June. YIKES.
a new marriage, new location, retirement,
has packed on the pounds
I am looking forward to warm weather so I can walk while I eat. (tee,hee)
I SO wish I had my act together enough to make extensive meal plans. Make that I wish my life were predictable enough that I could implement meal plans. Maybe when the kids are a bit older and as you said, I get more sleep!
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Food. It satisfies us. We don't have to worry about satisfying. No problem there!
I'm in that thirties trying to get 15 minutes of sleep stage, WOW, you are so on the money-and funny too. BTW- I am your newest follower from FF. Hope to see you in my neck of the woods soon.
I wish I could plan meals out at the beginning of the week and stick with it. I usually end up procrastinating until the kids tell me what they want before I start cooking
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I am laughing out loud! We so speak the same language Debbie! I woke up this morning thinking of Egg Mc Muffins! I'm always thinking about food!
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I can totally relate to all of this! You are such a foodie!
Ha ha! I have never thought about it like that, but it is true.
You are a genius!
And...now I'm hungry.
I don't really plan ahead. I probably should. It would make things easier.
Hello from Vegas! I love food and thinking about food...probably why I am overweight...lol.
For retirement....hubs and I want to travel across country eating in diners. And pie shops.
Yep! Food! That is where it's at!!
Last night I have seafood ravioli..OMG!! TDF!!!
Love my food but I really don't menu plan!
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I hate to think about food, I would live on sandwiches, or if I had the possibility I would eat outside everyday.
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Love it! I love to meal plan. Life goes smoother if I can plan 2 weeks ahead of time and know what is for dinner.
We're still in the even 15 minutes of sleep is blissful stage though!
This post makes me hungry.
I am foodie too! I could watch Food Network all day. I can't cook at all, but my daughter wants to learn and be a chef. Oh glorious day! Maybe she will be and she can live at home forever. HA.
glad to know I'm not the only one that always thinks of food!He He I sometimes plan out my whole week and those happen to be major highlights in my day!
Wow, I remember my mom would improvise/experiment with the food right on the spot. One day she did not know what to cook and she decided to cook Italian Steak! How did she do it? She fryed the steak and added Italian dressing. And there you have it. Italian Steak! I always remind her of this. LOL
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i absolutely LOVE this post !
and i am beginning to think that somehow-- either you and i -- or perhaps our husbands, might be related !
really.
the restaurant thing? we do the SAME thing-- or we order two of what we think looks good and tears us -- and we half it :))
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Pah. I'm 27 and I've been food-obsessed for, oooh, 26 years ;)
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I love this post, hilarious! I am a foodie so I can really appreciate your post. I wish you were my mom, would love some home cooking!
I'm sayin' this is sooo true. I'm a planner...type-A and all so I'm plannin' meals before most people even think about eatin' them.
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I'm not quite to my 30's yet, but I'm definitely one of the parents wishing for sleep right about now. My 6 month old is anti-naps at the moment. **yawn**
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Although I usually start thinking about lunch at around 9am, I don't ever plan meals. Every grocery shopping trip, I tell myself I need to because I end up with a cart full of groceries, but zero cohesive meals.
Would you call yourself a foodie? What kinds of foods do you lean toward?
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In my case, after my first child was born my appetite kicked in and I was only 21. It's still the same that I'm 50 even though I try to suppress it or at least eat low calorie foods most of the time.
*laughing* -- And I just hit it on the fly now - But, I always am thinking of food -- I'm almost always hungry - if I gave in to my hunger, I'd be 50 pounds heavier - I can eat like a Man! I surely can -- haw! But, I just kind of eat whatever I feel like now, unlike the days when my son was at home and I planned meals.
I am a horrible cook. It comes partly from being a very picky eater and partly from sheer laziness.
My mom on the other hand is an amazing cook. I so need to learn from her!
I wish I was more interested in meals. I love eating but not the prep-work. I wish I had someone like you close to me. :)
HA! I love food, too. I'm pregnant with our 3rd now though. I've never done meal plans, we wouldn't stick to them. I'm doing good if I make a grocery list before we go to the store!
My daughter will be starting college in the Fall. And when we visited the college she chose back in October, I was so depressed when we ate in the cafeteria. The food is absolutley amazing. The dining hall is huge and the selection in immense. People from the community actually go there to eat. Now I have no hope of enticing her home for the weekend for a good home cooked meal. There is no way I can compete with that. :(
Nothing beats thinking about food - except maybe napping.
My wee Granny plans all her meals a week in advance... no sooner has she finished one meal that she is planning the next!
A little late, but had to tell you how funny this post is! The time line is so right on too! :) Me and hubby love our food too, but I STILL hate to cook. I guess that will not change...
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A food plan in on my to do list. Can I use yours as a cheat sheet?
Good points about food, btw.
I wish thinking about food was as effective as actually planning for food.
I don't plan much food or meals, but I spend an inordinate amout of time thinking about eating. Which certainly explains my muffin top.
And the lack of time I have for thinking about men.
i cook all the time now and i couldnt stand it when the kids were young and we really couldnt afford to eat out
I always try to plan ahead, but then I see something shiny and totally forget what I was doing in the first place.
It's unfortunate that I have the attention span of a fruit fly. I aim to be more of a planner like you are though!
i also spend all of my time thinking about food. i didn't want to leave the house for college solely because of my mother's cooking.
Oh, and now I like you even more. Obsessed with food, me? Just a tad.
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Everything seems to revolve around food in my life! Everything!
The Battle of the Bulge was never so pleasurable....nice column, thanks!
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Me? I'm ALL about the dessert. I look at the dessert menu before I even glance at dinner.
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I think about lunch when I first wake up. I can't plan meals cuz I never know what I'll be in the mood for. But I do keep pancake mix and nutella on hand at all times. It never disappoints.
hi! i think about our family menu all the time too! my husband thinks that planning 3 dinner meals in advance is good enough but i think we should plan more.
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You are hysterical! I wish I could plan out our meals. I never know if I am going to be up to cooking from one day to the next, but I do have the meals in my head. So I know what the meals are going to be, it just has to be if my body allows me to stand at the stove and cook. I just learned that my hubs wants to learn to cook, that just turned me on so much I wanted to burst! I used to plan meals at least a week in advance and have it on our monthly calendar with all the kids school stuff - made life so much easier.
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That is funny. DH and I do the same when ordering. Usually though so if we both can't decide which to get, he gets one, and I get one, then I can eat off his plate, lol.
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OMGosh........I love this post! I LOVE FOOD! I LOVE EATING! You're right, when you're in your 40's - Food ROCKS, doesn't it? I think about food all of the time! What will I eat next? What will we have for dinner tonight? What will we have for dinner tomorrow? I hear people say, "Oh, I forgot to EAT today.......helllloooo........how can people FORGET to eat? I love to eat! Eating ranks up there next to S_X.....if you know what I mean! :):)
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I'm still trying to follow the menu plan..but somehow we're always on the run and it's a $5 pizza here and there or something from the value menu at Jack In The Box.
No kids, in my 30s, so DH and I are always thinking about food! (which is a good thing, I suppose, since I am a food blogger). I don't have strict menu plans but each week I do pick 3-4 recipes out that I hope to make during the week.
The picture of the couple and their baby? Yes, that's my husband and I. I so get it. I laughed out loud when I saw this.
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Yes. I've been seriously eyeing the prospects of becoming a chef. I love ...used to love to cook anyway!
I love making menus! I was making menus up until a few weeks ago. I keep meaning to sit down and plan it out. It really is easy and makes meal time easier, plus you waste less and buy smarter! My mind is so mushy these days. I really need to get back to my calendar and fill it in! Love this post!
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Hahaha! This is great!
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Hmmm...I dunno. I like my food now, and I'm only in my 30's. LOL
Of course, that fact is quite obvious when you look at my backside. ;)
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